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Thursday, August 26th, 2010
A great site for moms in the Columbus, Ohio area, Kids Eat Out, just reviewed Penny Stones as a Fab Find:
Here’s an excerpt:
So you need a fun, reasonably priced, unique “______” gift. (hostess, housewarming, baby shower, birthday, teacher, you-name-it!)
Well, look no further than Penny Stones.
And they’re giving two sets of Penny Stones away, Original and Slumber Editions. Enter today!
http://www.kidseatout.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=105:pennystones-review&catid=36:fab-finds&Itemid=56
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Tuesday, August 10th, 2010
Penny Stones were just selected for Sweet Sixteen and Quince party ideas:

Sweet Sixteen and Quince Party Ideas
http://www.woai.com/entertainment/story/Quince-party-and-gift-ideas/FigTl5EoO0qFY0JJTfcyZg.cspx?rss=1484
And we made the TV spot too! Penny Stones are recommended for table decorations to get the conversations flowing.
http://www.woai.com/entertainment/story/Quince-party-and-gift-ideas/FigTl5EoO0qFY0JJTfcyZg.cspx?rss=1484
Tags: conversation starters, ice breakers, icebreakers, parties, Penny Stones
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Friday, August 6th, 2010
Last month, I had the pleasure of attending the Phi Mu National Convention in Phoenix, AZ. It was an impressive event with even more impressive women! I had a fantastic time. I was asked to give a workshop on conversation skills and I have to say it went even better than I had hoped.

Phi Mu Foundation Luncheon
During lunch, each of the 550 attendees received a Penny Stone and we used them in the workshop I gave afterwards. The highlight for me was when I asked the ladies to ask their partner a typical icebreaker: “Where are you from? What’s your major? or How are you?” The room felt flat. Then I asked them to ask their partner a Penny Stones question. The room lit up! There was laughter, animation, and they didn’t want to stop talking. One of the ladies turned to me a said, “These things really work!”
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Friday, August 6th, 2010
I stumbled across this fun idea at www.group-games.com: http://www.group-games.com/ice-breakers/mm-game.html
Ages: All. Recommend number of people: Groups of 3-12. Messiness factor: No sweat. Materials required: A large bag of M&Ms or any candy with multiple colors (e.g. Skittles).
M&M Game
This icebreaker is a simple way to help people introduce facts about themselves. It’s very flexible and adaptable – and (if you have a sweet tooth) delicious too! The M&Ms Game goes by other names: the Skittles Game, the Candy Game, the Color Game, among other names.
Setup
Pour M&Ms or any other multicolor candy into a bowl. Have everyone in the group grab as much or as little as they like from the bowl. Make sure that no one eats their candy right away.
How to Play
For each piece of M&M candy they took, they will have to answer a question, depending on its color. For example, you can designate:
- Red candy: favorite hobbies
- Green candy: favorite foods
- Yellow candy: favorite movies
- Orange candy: favorite places to travel
- Brown candy: most memorable or embarrassing moments
- Blue candy: wild cards (they can share anyone they choose)
You can be creative and choose any questions you think would be fitting for your group. The facilitator will then call out the color topic and everyone will go around the room sharing 1 answer per M&M. As an example: if you chose two red pieces of candy, you will have to name two of your favorite hobbies. After the individual has shared that color with the group, he/she may then eat their candy. Continue to go around the room until each color topic has been shared.
Tags: communication skills, conversation starters, ice breakers, icebreakers, school counselors
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Friday, June 11th, 2010
When starting a new conversation, which is the best question to ask?
- What do you do for a living?
- What’s new?
- Are you a Browns fan?
- None of the above
The answer is 4 – none of these questions are great openers.
“What do you do for a living?”: Unless you’re at a work function or event like this, try to avoid career talk. Consider the possible outcomes: their occupation may be of no interest to you, or in this economy, they could be out of work. Ultimately, it’s better to try to talk about something that you are truly interested in.
“What’s new?” or “How are you?”: Too open-ended, you’ll get equally boring answers like “Nothing” or “fine”
“Are you a Browns fan?”: A yes or no answer is not a great opener, and only a die-hard fan would admit to being a Browns fan these days.
The best kinds of questions to ask are open-ended: start your question with Why, How or In what way…
Closed-ended questions ask for one- or two-word answers. Try to avoid: Are, Do, Who, When, Where, Which, Have you… ?
Here are some stock questions to keep on hand:
“What person would you most like to meet?” (pause) “Why?”
You can also introduce a topic with “My friends and I were just talking about…” and add what you’d like to talk about:
* Favorite place to visit
* What you’d love to try
* Your dream job
* Favorite childhood show, game or gift
* Favorite summer memory
Stock questions above are from Penny Stones - great ice breakers on glass stones.
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Friday, June 4th, 2010
My daughter came home with this great little sheet on communication skills: Seven Blocks to Communication
Here are seven things NOT to do when you want to communicate well. They block communication in a number of ways. They prove that you are not listening.
- Fidget. Play with your hair and clothes, twiddle your fingers, swing your leg or tap your foot.
- Don’t look at your partner. Look around the room, at the clock, or anywhere else. Don’t have eye contact with your partner.
- Interrupt. Ever time your partner starts talking, break in with a question or statement.
- Ask questions. Lots of them. Every time your partner starts talking, ask a questions, such as, “Why did you do that?” or “Why do you feel that way?”
- Criticize. Tell your partner all the tings that are wrong with his or her ideas, clothes, hairs, friends.
- Disagree. Every time your partner says something, disagree. Tell your partner that he or she is wrong.
- Give advice. Every time your partner starts talking, make a suggestion. Pretend to know a lot more than your partner does.
Tags: children, communication, communication skills, conversation, first impressions, good listener, interpersonal skills, listening skills
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Friday, May 21st, 2010
Here are some rules to go by when mingling:
- Most conversations = a few minutes
- Use information you’ve heard to change topics
- Optimum mingle time = 10 minutes
- Keep eye contact while the other person is talking. You can look around the room while you have the floor.
Tags: communication, communication skills, conversation, conversation starters, first impressions, interpersonal skills, parties, tips
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Thursday, May 20th, 2010
Nonverbal communication makes up over 50% of a person’s message, so it’s good to be aware of what your face is saying (even if it’s not what you mean):
Open face (makes positive impression) – makes eye contact, gives feedback, shows curiosity and raises eyebrows to show interest
Closed face (makes negative impression) – frowns, purses the lips, avoids eye contact
Coughing or sticking the tip of your tongue out through closed lips or both mean you disagree or don’t like what you’re hearing. If someone is doing these while your’e talking, you may want to change the subject.
Tags: communication, communication skills, conversation, first impressions, interpersonal skills, nonverbal communication, talk
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Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

If you’re like most people, the thought of entering a room full of people you don’t know and mingling with them is not comforting. Most people get a least a little nervous when they meet someone new. Here are three things to keep in mind the next time you’re meeting new people:
- Nervousness = excitement
The feelings of being nervous and being excited are virtually identical physically. When you start to feel nervous, tell yourself you’re excited. In a little while, you will be.
- Most people are as eager as you to establish rapport.
Everyone is a little uneasy with introductions. So you can count on grace being given if you mess up or forget someone’s name.
- 90% of all people are afraid to walk into a room of people they don’t know and mingle.
It’s always nice to know you’re not alone. In fact, you’re just like everyone else!
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Wednesday, May 12th, 2010
- Most people wait for others to make eye contact first, to smile first, to talk first, and to issue invitations first.
- Socially successful people actively work to bring others into their lives. They start conversations and they issue invitations.
When you take this information and keep in mind that it’s not what you say, but the fact that you say something (blog: Starting a Conversation: Just Say Something), there’s no reason not to strike up your next conversation.
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